Do you ever look at your children and wonder, "Who inspires them"?
I spend most of my time worrying about her school, her health, her day-to-day wellbeing that I don't always think about her bigger dreams. What are they? Where do they come from? How can I help her?
I caught myself wondering about her inspiration tonight as I shut off the lights and put the bedtime stories away.
Our daughter is interested in such a wide variety of things. It is hard at times to keep track. She swims. She plays drums. She dances. She plays with dolls. She loves board games. She explores with her Girl Scout friends (technically Daisies at her age).
She does all the things that are probably normal for a majority six-year olds. And yet I find myself wondering who her female heroes and role models will be.
Will it be her mami? TheBetterHalf® is an incredible woman (and I'm sure I don't tell her that enough—lo siento muñequita).
Will it be Missy Franklin? TheKiddo™ has made it clear she loves swimming, and that she wants to win gold medals in the Olympics just like Missy.
Will it be Lisa Randall? TheKiddo™ does love math and science (a love I hope to foster for as long as I live).
I have no idea from where TheKiddo™ will draw inspiration. Mine came from books, movies, and my imagination. I didn't have heroes, or anyone that I truly aspired to be. I wasn't even sure who I ought to admire.
I'll do my best to place incredible opportunities, people and role models in her path. And at the end of the day, that may be all I can do.
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